I'm at 20 Male to 16 Female Icons (some of those have both, I filed them under whichever seemed the "protagonist" of the image), not counting those without a human in them.

But I've been using the Female ones a whole lot more lately, so the raw numbers don't really convey the whole story.

And yes, overcommunication is usually better than undercommunication. Though I have an Icon that I haven't uploaded yet of Willow saying "I'm over-helping again aren't I?" ;)