Aaand there was no real indication of flakiness. Or rather, she did have to reschedule our original meeting, but she kept me informed the whole time and I knew what was going on -- which for me falls under 'life happens' (it doesn't usually become 'flakiness' until it happens frequently or the person doesn't communicate).

If she doesn't show I suppose I keep the deposit and get rid of the stuff, but not knowing is really weirding me out. I'm twitchy!