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Kiyoko's parents are coming to visit!

[recap: Kiyoko was my room-mate for five months in college, when she was doing an English program organized by her university in Tokyo. She's awesome and we kept in touch after she went home. Last year she came back to the US for more english education, and lived with my parents for four or five months before moving up to Auburn to go to the community college there.]

They don't speak English, and will be staying with my parents, who don't speak Japanese. I suspect Kiyoko will have her hands (mouth?) full with translating. Everyone -- on our end, at least -- is super excited about this.

I'm kind of interested in the etiquette and normality of visiting and staying at people's homes. I've read that it's much, much less common in Japan, at least outside of family, but I've never been clear on whether that's 'advice for foreign visitors' or a reflection of a broader norm. When I was there I bypassed that completely by being "The friend of a kid" -- I stayed with Kiyoko's parents, and Rina's, and Yuriko's, and I was just one of their kid's friends having a sleep-over -- an idea that seems to cross some cultural divides. Etiquette just doesn't apply as much to your kids' friends, apparently. It's like the cheat-code into casual family life.

It was really fun to be the borrowed kid. I'd feel guilty about all the things my friends' parents paid for, but my parents have done the same for all of their kids, so I suppose it evens out.

Anyway, it'll be fun to see Kiyo's folks' again, though I'm afraid our giant-fireworks-and-patriotic-jingoism day won't be quite as cool as a walk up mount Fuji and a soak in the onsen afterward. I wish we had a bit more time -- we could at least get out to the Olympics or down to Mt. Saint Helens or something. Oh well.
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Clan Kellington, Olympia Branch (and assorted hangers-on) is headed south tomorrow at 5 a.m., which is this mysterious time about an hour before I usually first slap the snooze button on my alarm and roll over for another 45 minutes.

We're going to visit my grandparents and see Jake Shimabukuro and Leo Kotke play at Britt, in Jacksonville. The fact that we're making this seven hour road trip with my parents (in the front seat, probably) and my boyfriend and I (in the back, as befits the younger generation, where we can poke each other and squabble until someone tells us to be quiet) is apparently surprising to many people... but we're looking forward to it.

Mom, Erik, and I wanted to buy ukuleles and teach ourselves to play on the way down, because 1) ukuleles are travel sized, 2) we're seeing Jake Shimabukuro, and 3) that's the kind of annoying-the-driver story no one would believe -- but financial prudence won out.

Also we don't want dad to leave us by the side of I-5 somewhere between Salem and Eugene. So.

(It's a hard dream to give up -- especially since I found out that Uke-an Play Jimmy Buffet! For Beginners is a thing (for real! That bad pun actually made it to publication!).

Anyhow. Don't know how much I'll be on the net, don't be surprised if I don't respond to hails, etc.
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In not very long at all I'm off to [livejournal.com profile] emony42's house for the weekend (on the train, yay!) to help plan her garden -- which is quite ridiculous and presumptuous given the sorry state of my yarden, but she seems to like the idea.

I love trains for many reasons, but one of them is that I don't usually get car/motion sick on the train if I try to read, write, or draw, and I do on buses and in cars. Since my imagination usually takes flight when I'm rolling along in any kind of vehicle, being able to do something with that is awesome. Of course now I have such a huge list of Things To Do On The Train that I'd need more than an hour and a half train ride. :P

One of the Things To Do is think about composition with regards to my forever-unfinished fan-art work (a twitter conversation with [livejournal.com profile] regeener reminded me of this. Hi, Geener!). I make my bread-and-butter doing graphic design; in theory I can manage composition. In practice I do just fine if I start the 'right' way (thumbnails! Always thumbnails!) and quite poorly if, like with this piece, I really only set out to do a figure sketch/study, and it kind of grows into a picture. It's just not set up 'right' from the get-go -- it's an awkward middle-distance PoV, too close to be a scenery shot and two far to be a close-up, with the figures a bit too straight-on to the viewer. Oh well - even if I don't figure out a way to frame it/background tweak it into 'art', it'll still have served the purpose of teaching me to paint digitally, but it'd be nice after all this time spent if I could bump it up to the next level.

I also want to try the 25-expressions meme, which is an excellent one for anyone who draws, and just have to decide which character to start with.

And of course I could get started on writing the next chapter of Star.

And then, if I can figure out the pose, there's always doing a character portrait of the as-yet-unnamed protagonist for That Sci-Fi Idea Without A Plot. I've been wanting to draw her for awhile.

EDIT: Ooh, I could sketch ideas for my mailbox, too.

Man, sometimes in the morning the world feels so full of creative possibilities I'm just boggled. Wish I was better at hanging onto that feeling throughout the day.
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The trip to LA was more fun than I expected, but I'm glad to be home. I'm fairly pleased with myself for having no trouble driving the rented car in LA -- I was a bit worried about the whole strange car/strange city thing, but really, it's so damn car-oriented that it was easier than Seattle.

The only touristy thing we had time for was going to La Brea and the Page museum. The fossils and the excavations were fascinating... though it's a bit disturbing to realize that even nature is trying to pave LA.
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Erik and I'll be flying through Bellingham Friday morning on our way to Vancouver, with a projected stop at the Drop for coffee. We won't be around long enough to arrange any visits, but a weekend trip to Bellingham is on the itinerary for sometime this year.

In the meantime, I'm going to spend my US tax rebate to stimulate the Canadian economy. It's foreign aid!
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Things I like about England: Clotted Cream

Things I loathe about England: Textured wallpaper
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[livejournal.com profile] didotwite2001's place in Manchester. We've been in Carcasonne since the 19th, staying at a youth hostel just yards from the castle gate, tromping around the cobbles in the perfect picturesque fairytale city, at least, perfect if you squint away the souvenir shops that are inexplicably full of Amy Brown saucy fairy sculptures. Yes, the Amy Brown from Bellingham. Who has fairies on air fresheners. That one.

Helen was quite right in her guess that my French would come back as we left. I was doing pretty well the last two days, so I could truly appreciate things like the interaction at the family-run restaurant we ate at Wednesday night (Maman, Papa, Fille, et their dog Cocoon provided both food and unintentional entertainment).

My French was NOT up to the task of the Smallest, Most Entertaining Museum Ever. As far as we can tell, the musee de Chivalerie in Carcasonne is one man's labor of love, and far from charing us an extra two euro for a guided tour, he gave one whether it was wanted or not. Exuberantly. In full templar kit. This includes thrusting swords at the guests, rushing outside to blow a battle horn, getting Helen and I to stand back to back so he could pantomime tying us up and throwing is over the castle walls ("Cannon balls, they take time to make, they are very expensive. English prisoners, they cost nothing! You are English, yes?"), running back to the door so he could do the same thing for the next group and catch them up to us. A mere description really doesn't do it justice. I caught maybe on word in four, and had the reassurance of knowing that the french group with us wasn't catching it all either. Helen caught about as much as I did just because she knows the history (when you're in a room of bows and he just said agincourt, you can kind of figure out the content). Museum square footage? Not larger than my house. Time spent being entertained by obsessed, animated frenchman in maile? 2 hours.

That museum was totally worth the 5 euro.
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I ran myself a cold bath last night.

Apparently, if you run both the cold and the hot tap such that the bath temperature is actually correct, the cold comes out of the water heater tank somehow and so the hot runs out before the bath is full. Geoff and Peg were quite amazed at my foolishness until they remembered that my cousin had done the same last time she was here.

The town I mentioned before is Llangollen, pronounced something like Cthlangocthlen. I bought a latte there, which was really cafe au lait, and the takeout cup had a lid with no hole in it.

Tonight I'm going to make dinner, mostly because Peg remembers loving how I cooked rice. Plain rice. The instructions on the packets over here call for some ridiculousness with a seive, rather than getting the proportions right off.

Clearly, despite their many advantages over us in terms of, say, gay rights and a useful train service, the brits could use help in the vital areas of water-tap, hot-drink-take-out, and rice cooking technology.

Still enjoying myself immensley. It's worth noting that my feelings of small superiority are at the same level as those I feel about US vs. Canadian Wait/Walk signs. Ours are far preferable to the Canadians. We haven't got anything else on them, but I'll patriotically stand by the American Wait/Walk sign.

Off to sunny southern France tomrrow with [livejournal.com profile] didotwite2001!
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I've found that the best way of dealing with jet lag is to make sure you haven't slept for at least thirty hours before bedtime in your new zone. Then you can sleep like a log and wake up fashionably late. I may be a bit biased because I can't really sleep on planes, so this is always what I do. Of course, it's always worked, so there you are. I did almost miss Chester station because I CAN sleep on trains, so that side of it is problematic, but this is where it's a very good idea to have told the nice lady next to you where you get off, so she can nudge you at the right time.

Yesterday, Geoff made me play his gigantic, partially electronic accordian. It's hooked to amps and modifiers and things so that it can sound almost, but entirely, exactly unlike a violin (or oboe, skat, pipe organ, etc). In tonight's news, Geoff made Peg redundant.* Can't remember why, but she told him she won't darn his socks anymore. He pointed out that she doesn't do that now, so she pointed out that she wouldn't cook. He asked her back at twice her normal salary, but she informed him that she's quite enjoying being redundant. I gave her a dollar I hadn't changed, so she'll continue to make me absolute buckets of tea. Yes, Geoff and Peg really are the perfect British grandparents.

Geoff: We've been married fifty years, this year! And it's gone by like no time.
Peg: I need a medal. As big as a dinner plate.

We're going down to LLynglollen tomorrow, or perhaps it's Llynlloclen. Anyway, it sounds like it's got about twice as many consonants as you see, something like Cthlinglocthlin. I'd hate to be a welsh speaker with a lisp.

*gave her the sack, that is.
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One website says there's a masters degree program for comics in Lyon. One site says it's only a two week course, or a bachelors degree. It might just be that their site isn't complete. It might be that I move to Portland in a year or two, get Oregon residency, and study architecture. It might be that I stay where I am, loose faith in life and adventure, collect cats, and go slowly insane. This last would be perillously easy to do, because I'm strung along by always being on the verge of accomplishing something. I'm almost ready to submit children's book illustrations; I'm almost in a position to start comicing again.

Apparently, scrapping everything I've ever studied to pursue ethnomusicology in Quebec is not an option, because the only program requires a previous bachelors in the field and a working knowledge of German. Why the heck German?

Why does it feel like I ought to have done all this travel stuff during bachelors studies? How old do you have to be before you know what to be when you grow up?
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This Saturday, Brad and I rode a century.

Weekend tally:

States visited: 2
Intrepid liberal cyclists beaten up in Idaho: 0!
Ron Paul signs sighted: vast multitudes
Average town population: 900
Horses herded by bicycle cowboys: 1
Car tires shredded: 1
Miles ridden: 100.75
Life goals achieved: 1!
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It looks like I've finally got a new room-mate! Credit checks came through, situation to be mutually discussed in a month or two to make sure we don't hate each other, etc. Bonus points: Great Big Sea is one of her favorite bands, so at least we won't fight about music.

The weight of financial worry this takes off my mind is unbelievable. A room-mate or lack there-of is the difference between me putting $200 in savings every month or taking it out. It feels a LOT better to be on the positive side of that, especially with both Fiddletunes and a trip to the UK for [livejournal.com profile] bluwyngz and [livejournal.com profile] pyoor_excuse's wedding (tickets cost 150% what they did last time I went - ouch). I know I can afford those with money in savings, as long as I'm not draining that fund for daily expenses.

Btw, Kat? I would have come even if I hadn't found a roomie, it just would have gone on the credit card. :P

Now I can buy my carrots! Except, since I don't carrots my "once you find a roommate..." rewards are seasons 3 and 4 of Red Dwarf and perhaps interesting body creme stuff from villainess (if anyone's ever ordered from them, let me know).

ALSO! I have exciting happenings related to sheep and their astronomic adventures, but that's for another post.
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So, I've had occasion to say some rather critical things of my mother's family, but for the record, let us all remember that no matter how offbeat and irrational my grandfather can be, none of his branch of the family gets shouting-drunk in public, especially when they have kids to take care of. Nor have they ever run away from home (uh, I'm not counting Aunt Sue...), been in jail (that I know of), or been involved in heavy drugs.

I discovered that the way to get the real dirt in a family that is reticent-to-the-extreme or addled-in-the-memory is to talk to the in-laws. I always liked Graunt-in-law Yvonne (Gruncle Ed and Graunt Yvonne are the only ones I knew going in), and I got to meet Graunt-in-law Jo Anne, who's sharp as a tack and happy to tell me all about her in-laws (that'd be my great grans). Jo is also the only 74 year-old I've ever heard call anyone "pussy whipped" - and she was describing her own son.

The other way to get the dirt on people's lives is to wait 'till they get seriously drunk and start shouting about it, but I don't recommend it.

As for my first trip to the SW: the colors are beautiful, the pueblo ruins were amazing, and that many people ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO LIVE IN THE DESERT. Dad's right - Phoenix is THE poster-child for urban sprawl.

After we got back we met a friend in the grocery store who asked how Phoenix was. Dad suggested that if she stood in the Lowe's parking lot and imagined it was 98 degrees, she'd have a good guess. Myself, I have to disagree. I think to get the full effect you'd have to buy a little potted cactus from the home-improvement section and make the whole place much more dusty.

And OH! I saw lizards and bunnies and wrens and flickers and hawks and a desert shrew! The shrew was my favorite. Also, the nice park rangers gave me an OFFICIAL junior ranger pencil at Montezuma's Castle, for drawing with. They didn't make me take the Junior Ranger Oath, thankfully.

Perhaps related, while my mom was giving me a piggy-back ride my aunt Bridget came up behind us to ask "And you wonder WHY people think you're twelve?" Ok, s'fair cop.


*Great Uncle. You could've figured it out.
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As you can no doubt tell from my proper use of punctuation, I'm back at home typing on a standard English keyboard. My plane was a tad late, but not too bad. I have a lot of pictures -- we're talking something like 5 burned CDs in my luggage. I'll sort and upload the good ones to somewhere, but I'm not yet sure where.

I like the tagging feature of flickr, but not the upload limit or the maximum of three 'sets' (albums) for non-paying users. Also, I've never found it to have the most intuitive interface, which is an important consideration for albums one might want to send to, say, Grandma. Picasaweb doesn't do tagging, and neither does Picasa...and I don't need photo editing, just storage organization. Anyone tried photobucket? Lightbox? Smugmug?

I should be writing about the actual trip, but it's still distilling, so here's the briefest of rundowns:

I arrived in Fukuoka late on the 8th and left early the next morning for Ube, where I stayed two nights at Evan's apartment and rode a 'mama-chari' around the town. On Tuesday I took the train to Osaka, where I stayed two nights in an overly sterile, regimented hostel that fell somewhere between elementary school and jail in tone. In Osaka I wandered around parks and gardens, large shopping areas, old museums, and went to the aquarium. Then off to Kyoto to stay in a Ryokan (Japanese inn) with, thank goodness, a private bath, see some temples and shrines and souvenirs, do utterly foolish things on a bicycle, and wander around the amazing train station.

On the 15 I went up to Kawasaki, just south of Tokyo, and met Kiyoko, who I miss already/again. At that point it started really feeling like vacation - the girls (Kiyoko, Rina, and Yuriko) and their families all had more restful schedules for me than I made for myself, while seeing, really, the same amount of stuff. I think I need a keeper, sometimes. Kiyoko and I went temple-seeing in Kamakura, lounged around a cafe playing Othelo/reversi whatever (She kicked my ass), and spent the evening wandering through China town in Yokohama. The next day we went to the mall to get me some new, cheap shorts, as Japan was a whole lot hotter and more humid than I imagined (When I saw '85-90', I just stupidly assumed that those were highs and it cooled off in th evenings. It doesn't). She took me up to Tokyo and handed me off to Rina (The girls organised my Tokyo stay between themselves, right over my head, which was odd-feeling but really nice). I was a little nervous about seeing Rina, since it's been almost three years, but I'd forgotten that the real reason I kept involved with AUAP was that Rina and I had such a good relationship - she was my first AUAP room-mate.

I'd apparently never talked about my surgery history with Rina, btw, though she knew my leg issues were congenital. There's some kind of fascination there for her that I'd never encountered before - not clinical, not macabre - and even though I don't understand it, I appreciate it, because it meant lots of kind of idle foot/leg rubs, something only mom or [livejournal.com profile] emony42 have ever done. I'm really not getting enough human contact, recently.

Speaking of which, Japan is not a very 'touchy' culture - Rina made her parents hug me goodbye because that's what we white people do (insert chuckle), but they were clearly uncomfortable. I think that Rina and Kiyo both like that part of US culture (I know it's not homogenous). I know Kiyo likes it, because we talked about ways of interacting with kids, and how much children are hugged in the US. Between that, the fact we lived together, and the different Japanese standards of young-female-friend interaction, there was lots of hand-holding as we walked around, which was really quite charming.

But I digress...

Spent a few days with Rina's parents (She doesn't live there anymore, but has a room). They were really kind, very fun and comfortable-homey in a very brand new house. We went to an art museum and went caving at Nippara limestone cave, which has far fewer safety precautions than similar attractions in Suit-happy US. Rina's mom taught me how to properly tie an obi. I spent a day and night with Yuriko, then my handlers swapped me back again to Rina. Kiyoko's family picked me up at Rina's to go to Mt Fuji, which situation I'm afraid I made rather awkward by being in the middle of making scones when they arrived, so that they ended up being invited in for breakfast - a perfectly normal happening at my folks' house, but not too standard for Japan! Went with Kiyoko and her folks' to Mt Fuji and an Onsen (hot springs/spa/baths), then to their house in Chiba for the last night.

Now, after 29 hours awake and 12 asleep, here I am!
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My beautiful assistant, the Date Line, and I, will be attempting time travel! Yes, before your astonished eyes, I will arive in San Francisco 7 hours BEFORE I leave Tokyo! CAN SHE DO IT? Wait and be amazed!

That means, btw, that with the SFO layover I:ll get to Seatac about 15 minutes after I leave Narita, or about 5;45 pm for all those anxious for my exciting return.

I:m spending the last night in Chiba with Kiyoko:s family and little terrier thing, Ran-chan. Spent most of the week with Rina and her lovely family near Ozako station, west part of Tokyo. More updates later!


Just remember, sometimes kindness really is being given your own `Disney Princess` washcloth.
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I wore myself out in Kyoto - great city to come back to sometime. Now, off to Kawasaki and Kiyochan. Ta!
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I'm chillin' at Evan's apartment in Ube, waiting for him to get back from work and hiding from mosquitoes.

Damn foreign mosquitoes love white people. I wish they were more xenophobic.

I've a very, very few pictures up at flickr: http://www.flickr.com/photos/10027325@N05/tags/japan/ (I can't make the kana keyboard do an equal sign, so copy'n'paste). There are a bunch more at Facebook, but I'd have to link to 'em one at a time. I've yet to find a photosharing utility I whole-heartedly like.

I got in late on the 8th, which was still the 7th for most people reading this. I AM IN YOUR TOMORROW! It's okay, robots haven't destroyed the planet yet.

Yesterday Evan and I rode to Takiwa* park and took pictures of the the sculpture there. Ube has a sculpture bienniel, and the winning piece is installed permanently in the park, while the others are placed elsewhere in the city. Place is filled with modern sculpture, it's absolutely fantastic. Lunch was Yakiniku at a restaurant in the park...yum.

*Evan's room-mate, Andrew, is very nicely letting me borrow his bike. It's a bright-red three speed with a comfy seat and a covered drive-train - [livejournal.com profile] bluwyngz would love it. No one here wears a helmet, but since everyone is riding these at five miles per hour, I suppose it doesn't matter much. I feel like my mother on one, which fits - Evan says the style of bike is called "mama-chari", short for "Mama Chariot."
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This should be interesting.

As always, I'm mostly worried that I'm bringing to much junk. In this case, though, it seems like it's almost all stuff to give away.

Ciao!

Sugoi!

August 3rd, 2007 06:02 pm
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I just spent $$$$ on tickets to a country where I don't speak the language, and *deep breath* I'm not hyperventilating! Go me!

Those as knows me knows that would be hyperventilation of excitement, not fear. If I was hyperventilating. WHICH I'M NOT.


I did a little airplane dance, though.


Now that I know my travel dates, hopefully I'll be able to contact Rina and Makoto and Haruka (I've heard from Yuriko and Kiyo-chan, but we haven't made firm plans) so that I actually have people to see and places to stay. I'm flying into Fukuoka and meeting Evan, then going to stay at his place in Ube. I want to spend a day or two in Osaka, and then I'm hoping to meet Kiyoko in Kyoto, then northwards to the Tokyo area. Or maybe I'll use my questionable Japanese and spend the whole two weeks in a jail in Fukuoka. You never know! That's why travel's exciting, kids!
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Stuff in my hand

Rise Up Singing, 15th Anniversery Edition (Spiral-bound, [livejournal.com profile] westrider!)
CD, Le Groupe Sans Age
CD, Hand It Down
CD, Reunion
A book of crooked Quebecois tunes
A green plastic harmonica
A fun meter
An unraveling A string
A new A string of a type I'm not fond of.


Stuff in my head

A polka which is not actually named Timmy, even though I keep calling it that.
"Ronan Boys" (Liz Carroll reel)
"Road to Recovery" (ditto - still learning it, though)
"Reel Saint Paul"
"Reel Marcel Grondin"
troisieme partie du Caledonia, en 6/8
cinquieme partie du Lanciers
quelque 6/8...or maybe that's part of the Caledonia.
beaucoup de chansons de boire!
A bruise on my temple that should look nice and domestic-violence-y in a few days.

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